Monday, July 27, 2026

I don't think I can, but I know God can

 



This morning we get parables from Jesus about the Kingdom of heaven.

Jesus uses everyday things to explain what the Kingdom of heaven is like.

The parables all have in common three things.

One, something small that becomes much more than what it appears.

Two, all of these things are hidden from us.

Three, that once we discovered it, we will give up everything for it.

I suppose one of the sermons that could be given about the parables is a common idea in our culture.

It is an idea that we learn from a very early age.

The idea that we can do it.

No matter how small or insignificant we might appear that if we believe enough, and work hard enough we can overcome anything.

This idea is present in a lot of media.

I know I learned it as a child from the popular children’s book, The Little Engine That Could.

I assume that all of us know that book, so I won’t repeat plot.

But we all know the catch phrase that comes from it, “I think I can. I think I can. I think I can.”

When you’re young this is an important message.

It is important to believe in yourself, and it is important to do your best in whatever you do no matter how small the task is.

However, it is not the message of our parables this morning.

Our parables point to us a different truth.

It is a truth that is rooted in faith in God, and not in ourselves.

In all the parables God plants the hidden nature of the kingdom in small, insignificant, and in some cases opposite things.

In all the parables it is God whose action brings about the outcome.

 

I hesitate to give this sermon this morning, because I know how much it goes against our cultural beliefs.

But also, because it might appear that I am telling people to give up, or not to have hope.

I want to be clear that is not the message I am giving this morning.

Instead, I want to focus our hope and our belief in a different place.

I want to focus our hope on God.

I want us to believe in God.

 

As your pastor I spend time listening to your struggles.

It is the main part of my calling.

And many of you are getting older.

What comes with getting older is losing things.

Losing your physical abilities, your mental abilities.

As one person I was visiting said to me, “Pastor my world keeps getting smaller and smaller.”

Those conversations often end with people giving me advice about how to deal with getting older.

What many of you say to me is, “Pastor don’t get old.”

That is not great advice.

Because I know and you know that is impossible.

Everyone gets old, everyone loses things as they get old.

It is not only inevitable it is also the way God set up our life on this earth.

And no amount of positive thinking, no amount of thinking you can, will change that truth.

 

I don’t know when it will happen, but there comes a time for all of us when we realize that there are certain things that are out of our control.

I don’t know when I discovered that I simply can’t bend the world to my will.

I can’t stop wars, hunger, hatred, violence, injustice.

I can work to eradicate them from my life, but I can’t stop them from happening in the world.

 

I also realize that not everything happens for a reason.

I know that is also not a very popular idea.

The other day was the fifth-year anniversary of my mother’s death.

I will tell you that I can’t find one good reason for her dying.

Five years later it still doesn’t make any sense to me.

Why would my mother, who was a kind gentle person, who didn’t drink or smoke, who ate well, and exercised everyday die.

(Please don’t try to come up with one for me.

That will only tell me you didn’t listen to this sermon.)

Some things just don’t make sense, and there are no lessons to be drawn from them.

 

Perhaps you are worried that I lost faith in God.

And nothing can be further from the truth.

Because those are times when we need faith.

We need faith when there are no answers, when age catches up with us, when it seems that injustice and hatred have won.

That is what faith is for.

 

Consider the parables that Jesus tells this morning.

Yeast is buried in the bread.

It is underneath the surface and does its work in secret.

The Mustard seed is buried in the ground, doing its work beyond our vision.

The fish are beneath the surface hidden from us.

The treasure is buried and lost.

All the parables talk about the hiddenness of God’s work.

We can’t see it.

And to me that is the point.

We need faith to believe that those things will produce something bigger and better.

Faith to believe that the dough will rise and feed us.

Faith to believe that a tree will appear big enough to give us shade.

Faith to believe that God will sort out the good fish from the bad fish.

Faith to believe that the treasure is in the field.

 

Never once after my mother died did, I worry about her.

I knew through faith that God had something glorious in store for her in God’s heavenly kingdom.

When you tell me what you are going through as you age, I never doubt that God is with you giving you the strength to accept what is.

Despite all the injustice and hatred of the world I have faith that God will someday make it right.

 

I was reading this week about a person who had a very difficult life.

His father was a drug addict and would hit him and his mother.

He lost his job and ended up living a life of squaller on the street.

His mother tired of the years died at an early age.

He bounced around from place to place.

He struggled in his own life with drugs and poverty.

He said that when he read this parable of the mustard seed what he thought about was the tree that was produced by the mustard seed.

And he was drawn to the idea that it produced a tree where people find a home and rest.

He suggested that we not call it the parable of the mustard seed, but the parable of the home tree.

That is what God provides for us.

God doesn’t promise us a life that is free from the struggles and sins of the world.

God doesn’t say that if we only believe we will be able to do it.

What God says, is believe in me.

Believe that below the surface of what you can see and know, I am making bread, a safe home, a place of justice, a field of joy.

That is faith.

And I wanted to let you all know this morning that is what we all have been given.

Not a false hope in our ability to control the outcome.

But a living faith in God’s love and grace.

A living faith that tells us that God is always at work.

Even when we can’t see it, imagine it, understand it.

That is what I believe in.

Not that I think I can, but that I know God can.

I hope for all of you this faith that allows you to give control over to God, and believe that God will provide a tree for rest, your daily bread, justice for those who are oppressed, and the joy in knowing that you have the most precious thing in the world, God’s love and grace.

Amen

Sunday, July 19, 2026

“Just love everyone, I will sort em out later.” - God

 



It would be nice to be able to root out evil.

This is at the heart of most human endeavors.

We want to create a world that is orderly and makes sense.

We hate a world that is messy, a world were both evil and good reside.

A world were things happen and we can’t easily decide who is the bad person and who is the good person.

A lot of movies divide up the world into good and bad.

The good person overcomes the bad person, and we cheer.

It gives us some comfort.

But real life is so messy.

It is so much harder to live in a world where sinner and saint live not just in different people, but within each of us.

Our parable for this morning shows us the messy world.

Where good crops and bad crops grow together.

They grow without our intention or knowing.

Like our guest preacher last week, I don’t know much about gardening and know even less about agriculture.

I am at heart a city person.

I prefer the comforts of city life.

I prefer concrete and a good restaurant to living in the open growing my own food.

But I was reading this week that the wheat and weeds are imperceivable from one another.

That if that type of weed showed up you wouldn’t be able to tell the difference.

They would look the same.

And so by trying to pluck up the weeds you would inevitably end up pluck up the wheat too.

 

The thing about humans is that our history is littered with people who have tried to bring order to our world.

Throughout time people have tried to pull up the weeds, to root out what they perceived as evil.

What I am about to say is going to sound weird, I ask you bear with me.

One of the ways to view the totalitarian regimes that arose in the aftermath of World War two were attempts to bring order to what appeared to be a chaotic world.

The world was changing rapidly.

It was bringing with it more and more industrialization.

And with it more and more social isolation, economic division, political ideology.

The rise of Mussolini, Hitler, and Stalin where because they offered people a simple explanation for their problems.

They offered simple solutions.

They offered utopian visions of what the world could be.

And in their minds, they offered a way to root out the evil around them and have a better world.

We all know how that story ended.

It ended in concentration camps, in a world war, in the loss of our individual expressions, in the loss of freedom.

Dietrich Bonhoffer talks about it in his book on community.

He says, ““God hates this wishful dreaming because it makes the dreamer proud and pretentious.

Those who dream of this idealized community demand that it be fulfilled by God, by others, and by themselves.

They enter the community of Christians with their demands, set up their own law, and judge one another and even God accordingly.”

He wrote those words as Hitler and Mussolini were consolidating their power.

He wrote them as people were losing their freedoms in the name of progress and a safer, more stable world.

It is a dangerous thing to root out evil.

To try and pull everything up in order to create the world you think is the “right one”.

Jesus this morning warns us against such things.

Jesus asks us to let God make those decisions, to let God be the judge.

Maybe even harder is to trust that God will do that.

That when the kingdom comes God will set things right, and that it is only God who can actually decide properly.

 

I know that temptation well.

I felt it this week.

On Thursday I was walking into our church building and noticed that our rainbow flag was missing.

I have to tell you that it went missing one other time.

At that time, it was clearly the wind that ripped it from the poll.

I found the flag down the street.

So, my first thought was maybe that happened again, there was a strong wind on Wednesday night.

But as I approached the pole, I noticed that the pole itself was bent.

The clips the hold the pole were still there, and there were some fragments on the ground.

I looked around the neighborhood to see if it was anywhere.

It was clearly missing.

This time it wasn’t the wind.

I couldn’t help but notice that this happened after our Reconciling in Christ Sunday last week.

It also happened after I posted a picture from that Sunday of myself, our guest preacher, and Acid Reigns.

It seems to be too much of a coincidence.

Someone was mad, someone didn’t like the message our congregation sent with that service.

And after all of that my first reaction was to think, “We need to get rid of this type of hate in our world.”

My first thought was to call the police, maybe put up a camera.

I was angry about it, disappointed.

But I let it settle in me.

I took a moment.

And honestly, I thought about this parable.

What would it look like for us to root out this evil?

What would we do in order to get rid of people that think the best way to handle our differences is fear and intimidation through vandalism?

 

If you saw the video I posted about this incident on my Facebook page you saw the conclusion I came to.
Whoever tore down our flag did us a favor.

The showed us that our intentional love of people in the LGBTQ+ community was exactly what we should be doing.

We heard a couple of weeks ago Jesus tell us in the sermon on the mount that those who are persecuted and reviled for the sake of Jesus are blessed.

We are blessed for loving our neighbors.

And further in the sermon on the mount that the answer to another’s violence and hatred is not to answer it in kind.

But that love is always the answer.

That when evil is done, we can’t just tear up the roots of the weeds because we will end up destroying the good in the attempt.

 

I don’t think Jesus is telling us to do nothing.

In fact, the opposite.

Do something drastic and not expected.

Instead of trying to root out evil, respond with love and compassion.

I know that is not the way we think about these things in our world today.
I know that is not going to be very popular answer.

What we need now and have always needed is more love and compassion.

I think it is the only way we are actually going to change things in the world, and in ourselves.

As Dr. King once said, "Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." 

My response was to dig deep for love and compassion even for the person who vandalized our flag.

Many people reached out to me to thank me or encourage me to keep going, for our congregation to keep going.

So many people agreed with me that we can’t respond to hate with hate.

 

And the response from people in our congregation, and some people in our community, was to offer to buy more flags.

To show that we were going to keep on loving people.

 

Nancy Zattler a while ago gifted our congregation with a rock that is engraved a quote from God, “Just love everyone, I will sort em out later.”

That rock is at the entrance of our church by the flowers.

That is exactly what Jesus is asking us to do this morning in our Gospel reading.

That is what we at Concordia Lutheran Church will continue to keep on doing.

Amen

 

 

Saturday, April 4, 2026

The Mountains Teach the Lesson

 


They are always there

They mark the time

Forged from tension, erosion, fire and ice

Hills

Valleys

Hike in between

One step in front of the other

What do they care about who sits on these shores

What does it matter

People come and go

Mountains mark the time too long for me to see

But…it does matter me!

To others?

Those summers mattered!

They formed me (others)

These friendships mattered

These lives mattered

Late nights

Early mornings

Long days

Moon and stars

Sunrise – sunset

Songs sung

Dreams prayed

Unaware of danger

Only possibility

Of love

Justice

A better world

You can make a difference

You made a difference

Steps are sure and fast

And it doesn’t matter at all

The mountains will outlive you

The erosion will form new things

The songs will be different

People will change

Life gives way to death

Love hurts

Injustice is real

The pace of our steps slows

The hike is harder

The moon still shines!

The stars come out

The sunrises

Babies are born

Life goes on

Bills are paid

Work is done

Priorities change

The steps keep going

Adjustments are made

Loss happens

There are good and bad

Unexpected twists

Life doesn’t work out the way we plan

It works out worse

And it works out better

Love is deeper

We give up things for others

For our own sanity

We gain things

Nothing is a straight path

We couldn’t have known

 The mountains try to warn us

But we didn’t see

 We didn’t appreciate everything

We took it all for granted

Our steps were too fast

Thought it would last forever

Never imagined it would be us

But it all makes sense

The moon lit waters

The lakes shore

The mountains

The stars

The sunrise

Yourh

Growing old

Mourning the loss

Our dreams

Our love

Each step

All of it wrapped in the universe

All of it part of the greater part

All of it part of God

The mountains teach us the lesson

Thursday, March 6, 2025

Some Thoughts on Turning 52 (with the help from REM)

 


One of the things I love about music is that you can listen to something a thousand times and each time the meaning of it changes based on where you are in life, and what is going on around you in the world. This winter I have been relistening to the album, Green, by REM. They are one of my favorite bands. I have listened to their albums many times. Green is not my favorite REM album (That would be Document) but it is one that played a big role in my musical journey. I remember buying the cassette with my own money shortly after it was released. I remember bringing it home playing it on my stereo and reading the sleeve with the lyrics. It was an important moment for me. I was leaving behind my love of hard rock and heavy metal and exploring different bands that I had previously ignored. The Green tour was also the first time I saw REM in concert (at the Boston Garden with the Indigo Girls opening!) It was a rich and powerful time in my life, and REM provided the soundtrack.

                It has been said by the band that they thought that Green was “hazard, and scatter shot”. However, listening to it this year I heard a theme that is driving through the entire album. It asks us to think about our lives and where we stand in this world. This is the name of the lead single, “Stand”. We are asked to “think about our direction, wonder why?” In this time in my life, and in the history of our world and country, it seemed like a pertinent and important message for us all. To consider our place in the world, and what we stand for.

                Green opens with a song that asks us to think about the topics and things we talk about. “Should we talk about the weather? Should we talk about the government?” What are the things that we discuss. Do they matter? Do they carry weight? Or are we just going to talk about things that don’t matter? Are we just going to skate through life without a deeper understanding of why we are here, and what things we deeply believe? The older I get the more important it is for me to reflect on where I stand, and what I stand for.

                Green was released on November 8, 1988. It was purposely released on the day of the 1988 election. REM was dismayed at the way that our country seemed to not care about what was happening in the world. That we were sailing along on the heals of the supposed sunny Regan years. REM always challenged the narrative that we were in some golden years. They saw the destruction of the planet, the dangerous militarism, and an economy built for the rich. REM always stood against these things. Their music helped to awaken in me a call to see the world through the lens of things we don’t often say or talk about.

                All of this is the reason why, still at the age of 52, this album speaks to me. Although, now as I sit and think about the life I have lived, I continue to think about where I stand. I continue to work standing in a place that speaks of the values I was taught by my parents and grandparents. Values of love, caring, giving, humility, and kindness. Values that benefit not just me, but everyone. REM sings on the song, You Are Everything, “Sometimes I feel that I can’t even sing. I am very scared for this world. I am very scared for me.” That line sums up how I am feeling these days (I know I am not alone). And like many I am trying to figure out what to do in such times. That same song goes on to become much more personal about memories that we hold where we felt safe and secure in the world.

                As I turn 52, I find that I retreat more and more to those memories. Summers on the shores of lake Ossipee at Camp Calumet, long road trips with friends, sitting around the kitchen table with my mom and sisters talking, Christmas eve around the fire, worshipping at Triumphant Cross, lazy Saturdays at Muhlenberg college, watching sports with my dad, trips to visit my PopPop and grammy in New Jersey, going to Ocean Park Maine for a day every summer. Memories that remind me of the love many people have given me over the years. Love that formed me into the person I am and has given me the values I still hold close. Those memories are like a warm blanket that are helping me to navigate my life as I get older.

                Those are important. However, Green reminds me that they are not merely used to closing ourselves off to others. On the song, “World Leader Pretend” they ask us to consider the walls that we build up to protect us from others. They challenge us to use this time not to wall ourselves off but to break down those walls so that we might become empathetic to others. “This is my world and I am the World Leader Pretend. This is my life and this is my time, I have been given the freedom to do as I see fit. It's high time I razed the walls that I've constructed.” To be alive in this world, to be part of the world, we all need this examination of our motives, and why we are who we are. On my birthday this year I am thinking deeply about those walls, and how they prevent me from standing in the right place.

                I am thankful to all of you who have been a part of my journey in any way. Your love is what continues to always sustain me. That sense of belonging to others is what helps me to stand in all times. Your love is what has helped me to break down my own walls and let others in. Our shared memories are what sustain me as I grow older and take more stock in my life. We don’t know what the future holds, all we can do is live this day standing in the place of love. All we can do is work on breaking down the walls that keep us from loving one another. That is where I am standing on my 52nd birthday.

 

Here is my playlist for my birthday this year:

 

People Watching - Sam Fender

Starring Contestant – The Orange Peelers (my son Charlie’s band)

Budapest – George Ezra

Love Take Miles – Cameron Winter

One Particular Harbor – Jimmy Buffett

Up Where we belong – Joe Crocker and Jennifer Warnes

Woman – John Lennon

I’m the Man Who Loves You – Wilco

Crumbling Empire – Sam Fender

I Melt with You – Modern English

The Only Living Boy in New York – Everything but the Girl (cover)

Gold Rush – Lucious

Shambala – Three Dog Night

Not Mine – Orange Peelers

Chapter Six – Kendrick Lamar

Same Old Song – The Lumineers

You Are Everything – REM

Trinket – Dispatch (featuring John Butler)

I Got Loaded – The Wood Brothers

A Beautiful Morning – The Rascals

Who Believes in Angels? – Elton John and Bradi Carlile

Tomorrow is a Long Time – Bob Dylan

World Leader Pretend – REM
Better Days – Lumineers

Love is Everywhere (Beware) – Wilco

When the Circus Comes – Phish

Everything is Broken – Bob Dylan

Mathilda – Cam Martin

Let Things Go – Caamp

Take My Hand – The Band Feel

All Too Well- Taylor Swift

Rewrite – Paul Simon

The Days That We Die – Loudon Wainwright III

Wednesday, March 8, 2023

Thoughts on Turning 50

    


Every once and a while I choose a band or solo artist to explore more and take a deep dive into their discography. This January I decided to get to know more about the Cure. I have been listening to the Cure a lot. They are so good! I kept asking myself why I missed them the first time. Here is the easy answer. It was my own prejudice as a young person. I remember in eighth grade a talent show someone did a lip sync to the Cure's "Lovesong".  At the time I thought that only weirdoes and losers listened to the Cure. I was into heavy metal at that time in my life, and any other form of music I would dismiss as less than great music like Aerosmith, Motley Crue, AC/DC, Metallica, Guns and Roses, Kiss, Whitesnake, etc… Of course, my musical taste changed over time. I grew out of that phase into listening to more diverse music.

            Here was my great mistake as a young person. I missed out on so much because of my narrow view of the world. I believed then that there was something that was "cool". As I turn fifty I realize more and more how uncool I am. My kids tell me this all the time. I am out of step with whatever the latest fads are. However, I think this is a good thing because I now see the truth that we are all geeks (shout out to my college professor who taught this in my politics and religion class).

            There are lots of reasons why I am having a difficult time turning fifty. It seems like something momentous. I suppose it is as simple as I don't know how many years are ahead of me. As a lifelong best friend said to me recently, "I would like to believe that I will retire at 65 and have a nice long life, but we both that is not guaranteed." You get to a certain age and realize that you are as old as your parents, or that more and more of your friends are not in great health. I have actually already lost friends to cancer. No one is given tomorrow. When you are young you simply don't have that perspective, nor should you.

                However, one of the things I want to celebrate this year is that I do have a wider perspective on the world and myself. I don't judge people like I once did. I realize now that I am a weirdo and loser too. I realize that we all are cut from the same human cloth. We are all vulnerable, afraid, and lost. We all seek redemption and sense of where we belong in this crazy world. The older you get the more you come to understand yourself. You come to see that you are not cool and never will be. This allows you to grow in relationships and love others and yourself more.

            The cure on the song "In between days",  they sing, "Yesterday I got so old I felt like I could die / Yesterday I got so old it made me want to cry." It is a song about regret, and about wishing you could take some things back. I wish I could take a lot of things back from my younger days. I wish I was more open-minded at an early age, but I was trying to be cool. The great thing about me now is I know I am not cool at all, and I can simply listen to the music I like or explore different music. I can be open to everyone I meet and love them for who they are, rather than only like the people who are "cool" like me. There are some things about getting old that I don't like. I don't like that I can't eat and drink whatever I want without consequence. I don't like the feeling that my life might be coming to an end. However, there are also some things I am really thankful for. I am thankful for knowing myself better because it helps me accept and love myself. I am thankful that I have a wider perspective on other people, it helps me to accept and love others too. I am thankful for my wife and kids. I am thankful for my family. I am thankful for my friends. I am thankful I get to be a pastor.

                Ultimately I am thankful to be alive and to grow old. I love my life and want it to keep going. I want to continue to explore new music. I want to learn more about the diversity in the world, and hear more stories that make me laugh, cry, and think. If you are reading this I want to thank you for being part of that journey with me. Thanks for putting up with me as I grew and learned more about myself and the world. Thanks for loving me, because when I think back it is your love that has helped me in my life to grow and change. As the Cure sings, "However far away I will always love you / However long I stay I will always love you / Whatever words I say I will always love you." That is what we really are left with at the end of the day the love that we share with one another. Thanks for your love over these 50 years!

 

 

 

Monday, March 6, 2023

50 Songs for 50 Years of Life

 

50 for 50 Years of Life:

 


I wanted to create a soundtrack for my life. These are not necessarily my favorite songs. They are songs that remind me of a certain time of my life. They evoke memories or nostalgia. This is something that I have talked with my friend Mike Fields about creating. I came up with some rules for this list.

  1) Can only use an artist once.

 2) The song had to be released that year. (The last song is the only exception to this rule)

3)   In the first couple of years, I simply picked songs that I liked or that reminded me of something later in life. For example, I will always remember being on a bus in eighth grade on a field trip and people insisting I listen to Hotel California. Killing Me Softly by Roberta Flack was the number one song on the day I was born (March 7, 1973)

4) Only one song per year (I broke this rule on 1978…I have a lot of great memories of both of those songs!)

 

What would your list look like?

 

 

50 for 50 Years of Life:

 

1973 – Killing me softly-Roberta Flack

1974 – Matthew –John Denver

1975 – Shooting Star – Bad Company

I976 – Sick As a Dog - Aerosmith

1977 – Hotel California - Eagles

1978 – Grease Lightening – Grease/ Copacapana  - Barry Manilow

1979 – The Gambler – Kenny Rogers

1980 – Everybody Needs Somebody -Blues Brothers

1981 – Jesse’s Girl – Rick Springfield

1982 – Jack and Diane – John Cougar

1983 – Every Breath You Take – The Police

1984 – Jump – Van Halen

1985 – Home Sweet Home – Motley Crue

1986 – These Dreams – Heart

1987 – Touch of Grey – Grateful Dead

1988 – Every Rose Has It’s thorn - Poison

1989 – If We Never Meet Again – Tommy Cromwell and the Young Rumblers

1990 – Bouncing Round the Room - Phish

1991 – Half the World Away - REM

1992 – No Rain – Blind Melon

1993 – Laid – James

1994 –Better Man – Pearl Jam

1995 – Ironic  - Alanis Morsette

1996 – What I got – Sublime

1997 – The General  - Dispatch

1998 – One Week – Bear Naked Ladies

1999 – Doo Wop that thing – Lauren Hill

2000 – Beautiful Day  - U2

2001 – Last Night – The strokes

2002 -  The Rising – Bruce Springsteen

2003 – Mr. Brightside – The Killers

2004 – American Idiot – Green Day

2005 – Best of You – Foo Fighters

2006 – Satellite – Guster

2007 – 1234 – Feist

2008 – Dogs Days Are Over – Florence and the Machine

2009 – Home – Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros

2010 – The Cave – Mumford and Sons

2011 – Born this Way – Lady Gaga

2012 – Ho Hey - Lumineers

2013 – Two of us on the Run – Luscious

2014 – Rip Tide – Vance Joy

2015 – Rescue Me – Amy Helm

2016 – Better Man – Leon Bridges

2017 – Day I Die – The National

2018 – You’re the One – Greta Van Fleet

2019 – California – OAR

2020 – Haven’t been Doing so Well – Frank Turner

2021 – How Dare You Want More - Bleachers

2022- Lost Track – Haim

2023 – Love is All You Need – The Beatles

Thursday, March 2, 2023

50 things I learned from the movies


 50 things I learned from the movies

1) “The only true currency in this bankrupt world is what you share with someone else when you’re uncool.”

2) “Do or do not. There is no try.”

3) “Love doesn't make things nice, it ruins everything. It breaks your heart. It makes things a mess. We aren't here to make things perfect. The snowflakes are perfect. The stars are perfect. Not us. Not us! We are here to ruin ourselves and to break our hearts and love the wrong people and die. “

4) “Nothing happens to anyone that he is not fitted by nature to bear.”

5) “All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.”

6) “Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary.”

7) “There is no tomorrow”

8) “Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming.”

9) "Every man dies, but not every man really lives."

10) "Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."

11) "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get."

 12) “Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies."

13) “Remember, no man is a failure who has friends.”

14) "All men are sure it never happened to them and all women at one time or other have done it so you do the math."

15) “Great moments are born from great opportunity.”

16) "See, this is our time to dance. It is our way of celebrating life."

17) “Always Do The Right Thing.”

 

18)  “If you hit it right, it's one hell of a life.”

 

19) “The best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear.”

20) “The Man ruined the ozone, he's burning down the Amazon, and he kidnapped Shamu and put her in a chlorine tank! And there used to be a way to stick it to the Man. It was called rock 'n roll, but guess what, oh no, the Man ruined that, too, with a little thing called MTV!”

 21) “Plastics.”

 

22) “A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man.”

 

23) “The sweet is never as sweet without the sour”

 

24) "You can't handle the truth!" 

25) "You're gonna need a bigger boat."

26) "Today, I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the earth."

27) "A boy's best friend is his mother."

28) "These go to eleven."

29) "The Dude abides."

30) “The Things You Own End Up Owning You.”

31) “You see us as you want to see us - in the simplest terms, in the most convenient definitions. But what we found out is that each one of us is a brain, and an athlete, and a basket case, a princess, and a criminal.”

32) “It’s not the years it’s the mileage.”

33) “What came first, the music or the misery? People worry about kids playing with guns, or watching violent videos, that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands, literally thousands of songs about heartbreak, rejection, pain, misery and loss. Did I listen to pop music because I was miserable? Or was I miserable because I listened to pop music? “

34) “People call those imperfections, but no, that's the good stuff.”

35) "There's More To Life Than A Little Money, You Know.”

36) “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view...Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it.”

37) “After all, the wool from the black sheep is just as warm.

38) “The needs of the many out way the needs of the few or the one.”

39) “I Guess You Guys Aren’t Ready For That Yet. But Your Kids Are Gonna Love It.”

40)  “You listen, and you take a lesson from the dead. If we don’t come together right now on this hallowed ground, we too will be destroyed, just like they were.”

41) “Never rat on your friends, and always keep your mouth shut.”

42) “Everything in the world that happens does not happen to you personally.”

43) “Either They Don't Know...Don't Show...Or Don't Care About What's Going On In The Hood.”

44) “Pinot is thin-skinned, temperamental. It's not a survivor like Cabernet that can grow anywhere and thrive even when neglected. Pinot needs constant care and attention, you know?”

45) “The dead know only one thing: it is better to be alive.”

46) “Whoever saves one life, saves the world entire.”

47) “Don't admire people too much. They'll disappoint you sometimes.”

48) “The way to handle a woman

Is to love her...simply love her...”

49) "Love, Actually, Is All Around."

50) “The force be with you!”